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Rejections!! 

It’s the one word,  which no one is ready to go through but yet life throws it often. We all crave for love..To be in love and to be loved by the other person is the greatest thing one can have in life.

Love – its the most beautiful thing that connects every human being. But to some people it gives the worst kinda pain when lost. 

When people fall in love, the entire world looks different in a beautiful way to them. It really needs so much courage to express one’s feelings to other person .. Not everyone could do that. But at the same time the person who is ready to express should be ready to accept rejections as well. 

Rejection could give you the worst nightmare at times. Just be bold enough to accept anything that comes your way. Coz no one can predict what may happen next. Also, it’s better to get a clear rejection than a fake promise.. 

Even though rejections are worst, people should not think of it and remain unexpressed because what if the other person is also having the same feelings for you.  So, just don’t get scared of rejection when you wanna express love. 

Its your life, a short one as well, so do whatever makes it a happier one.. If you love someone, just go and express it without the fear of rejection.. Even if you are rejected by them, simply believe that you are being redirected to something better in your life 🙂 

So always remember that ‘Its not “rejection”, it’s just a “redirection”  in your life path.’

Go ahead and express your love to your loved one 🙂 

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Life learnings!

The last year 2016 had taught me so much in my life. I am sharing the few main things I had learned this year.
1. People may come and go in your life anytime. People do change very often.
2. Expectations always hurts.
3. Enjoy every small moments of your life.
4. Its always good not to have regrets in life.
5. Accept and let go of the past.
6. A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise.
7. Life will not go as we plan, be ready to accept the change.
8. There is a saying ‘if u do not ask the answer is always no’, but I think When you know the 99% answer already, don’t ask to confirm and get hurted.
9. Face your fear to move forward.
10. It’s always better to have one or two true friends than many.
Last but not least, whatever happens life should move on, be yourself and happy 🙂

Please do share your learnings of life in comments 🙂

Its Life !!

Life – A journey which we start alone and end it alone. The path we walk in the journey and the people who cross our paths matters most.
For most of us its not a cake walk. Everyone faces ups and downs just like a roller coaster ride. We all experience happiness, pain in a random order based on every individual time zone.
Sometimes it’s okay to be sad, to be low, even to cry.  It’s all a part of your emotions which constitutes life. Live every emotions to its depth.
With the technological improvement and its increased usage, people started to live more routine life than being alive. Just break your routines at times.
Look out for what your heart wants. Follow your dreams. Never give up on a thing which you think its right,  even if the entire world is against it.
Live your life for your sake not for the fake of others. Love your life at all times. If you can make someone happy, then just do it.  We all crave to be loved, to be happy. Just be the source and spread the love and happiness to the world.
Nothing remains constant other than the change itself. So don’t overthink of any current situations that bother you because even that will change.
Be strong and stay alive, life is so short 🙂

Happy New Year !!!

2013 had ended finally giving us a another year 2014.
May all be blessed with good health, wealth, happiness and love.
I wish you all a very happy and a prosperous new year 🙂
I hope 2014 has its own beautiful surprises to everyone individually or on the whole.
Let us prepare ourselves to face those surprises in a better way.
Life is so short, so let us all forget the worries that we had from the last year incidents and improve ourselves to the next phase of our life with the experienced gained.
Let us enjoy each and every moment in this year and make this year a happier one.

HAPPY NEW YEAR !!!!!!!!!

அவன், அவள், மழை

அவள் மழையை ரசிப்பவள்,
அவன் அவளை ரசிப்பவன்.
அன்று போல் இன்றும் வேகமான மழை.

கண்களோ அவளை காண தவம் பூண்டன,
உள்ளமோ அவள் வரவை எதிர் பார்த்தன.

அவள் வரவை உணர்த்தும் வகையில்,
மழையுடன் இடியும் சேர்ந்து இசை பாடியது,
இவன் மனமோ அவளை கண்டு ஆடியது.

இருவரும் அவர்களது ரசனையில் மூழ்கினர்,
அவள் மழையில்,
இவன் அவளில்.

சிறிது நேரத்திற்கு பின் மழை நின்றது,
அவள் மீண்டுவிட்டால்,
இவனோ தொலைந்து விட்டான்……

Girl and Society

“Heyyy girl…
You should not talk louder,
You should not play like a kid,
You should not get angriness,
You should not have the childish behavior,
You should not do this, that,
You should not talk against an elder,
You should not work after marriage,
You should not cal elders with their names” – These many nots

“You should leave your home after marriage,
You should give dowry to get married,
You should leave your dreams behind for your family,
You should be patient always” – Do’s

Wonderful isnt it???

What are all these stupid rules the society is following here.
Y is this always acts favorable to guys?
Y this society is not allowing the girls to follow their dreams?
Y shud they give a huge dowry to sacrifice their own family in the name of marriage?
Y this idiotic society is not ready to accept a girls growth?

This was the underlying relationship between a girl and her society.
I dunno when this is gonna change and the girl can feel her true independence in this highly democratic country India….

Dreaming about that great day thinking it wil become real someday !!