Ways to be Happy

Happiness – That is what all are looking for in this world. Our day to day activities are always related to happiness.

Most of the people search for happiness, instead of feeling it. If you want to be happy, then you can make yourself happier, you can create your own happiness. No external reasons are needed to be happier.

The simple ways which I know are as follows,

• Call your old friends and talk with them for some time.
• Think about your good old days.
• Cherish your memories.
• Help the needy person.
• Spend your time with elder people above 60 yrs.
• Play with kids less than 6 yrs and spend time with them.
• Avoid your wants and expectations.
• Be yourself.
• Always roam around the people with positive thoughts.
• Cultivate a good habit that makes you stress free.
• Enjoy and admire the nature (Rain,Moon,Sun etc).
• Talk with your best buddy.
• Watch your favorite movies.
• Go out with your friend’s gang.
• Listen to some good music.
• Keep your mind relaxed.
• Have a family trip to some good natural places.
• Most important thing is don’t leave your mind to be idle.

These are all the few ways which makez people happy.

Life is so short. So live it, enjoy it, feel happy and make others happy as the true happiness lies in making others happyyy !!!

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Girl and Society

“Heyyy girl…
You should not talk louder,
You should not play like a kid,
You should not get angriness,
You should not have the childish behavior,
You should not do this, that,
You should not talk against an elder,
You should not work after marriage,
You should not cal elders with their names” – These many nots

“You should leave your home after marriage,
You should give dowry to get married,
You should leave your dreams behind for your family,
You should be patient always” – Do’s

Wonderful isnt it???

What are all these stupid rules the society is following here.
Y is this always acts favorable to guys?
Y this society is not allowing the girls to follow their dreams?
Y shud they give a huge dowry to sacrifice their own family in the name of marriage?
Y this idiotic society is not ready to accept a girls growth?

This was the underlying relationship between a girl and her society.
I dunno when this is gonna change and the girl can feel her true independence in this highly democratic country India….

Dreaming about that great day thinking it wil become real someday !!

Life

Sometimes feeling much happy, sometimes getting sad.

Somedays Feeling Energetic, brisk,active,
Somedays getting bored, lazy.

Someone stays closer and longer,
Someone leaves u in amid.

Somethings are maintained secretly while,
Somethings are wide open to all.

Somewhere people are born rich while,
Somewhere people fights for their survival.

Somenights are sleepless while,
Somenights are worth a good dream.

Is this a life?
Some meaning it should have.
Searching for that some……

Luck – Do you believe?

It’s been more than a week I had posted a blog. Got little busy with my works for the past few days. Atlast got some time and thought to post something that I had felt recently. Here it goes …..

Luck – A wonderful feeling when you got something good happened in your life unexpectedly at the expected point. It differs from person to persons view. But everyone loves to be lucky always. That is the general attitude that every human possess.

So, what do you mean by luck? Have u ever felt that you are lucky to yourself or to someone? When is the last time you had experienced it? What made you to call that as Luck?

Definitely in life everyone would have felt lucky at certain situations of their life. If something good might have happened to them unexpectedly then they might had called it as luckily it happened. Even some people will feel that some colors, numbers are lucky for them or some persons are lucky for them or they believe blindly in something as their lucky charm.

Well they have defined Luck in dictionaries as a Good fortune, Fluke or Blessings. But, I feel it is more than that. It’s a kinda feeling or satisfaction you get when something good you think that it won’t happen in your life, you loosed all the opportunities to achieve it but yet that had happened in reality at the right time better than what you had expected.

But on the other hand there are few people who think that they are always unlucky. It’s not because of the bad things that had happened to them, in some cases the society and others makes them to feel like this. They make them to be stressed with the inferiority feelings on comparing with other persons who are lucky in life.

Do you think it is right to be lucky and wrong if you are unlucky?

Well, it’s a NO then. The situations in life changes rapidly. Whatever happens we should take it in a good way. Though you feel happy, satisfied, exaggerated when you are lucky and feel low, depressed when you are unlucky, it’s not good to be in extreme at both the cases. We should learn to manage the emotions. Only then we can turn everything in favor of ourselves either from a bad one or a good one.

Always think that Luck is just a belief don’t take it in a blind way. If you believe firmly in something good then you can turn even the unlucky situations as a lucky one.

Just think that how lucky you are to born and enjoy everything that nature had provided to you. Don’t have a blind belief in it, instead believe that whatever worst the situation is you can handle it in a better way 🙂

Don’t feel that you aren’t lucky, instead make yourself lucky in whatever you do with your hard work, passion and a strong belief on it.

Think and Feel lucky in whatever you do and make others to be lucky in their life 🙂

Nature !!!

What do you think when you heard the word Nature? Some may think of the natural sceneries, resources or Human nature. Almost everyone in the world would like to enjoy the natural sources.

There are a lot of things that nature can teach us in its silent way. Yes of course, if you keenly observe it then you will feel it as a good teacher.

There is a famous saying,

Look deep into Nature and then you will understand everything better ” – Albert Einstein

When I looked deeper into it, I understand a few things which Nature was trying to convey us with its actions and I am gonna share about it with you all.

Waterfalls:

It’s one of my favorite’s natural resource. Hope almost all the people likes it.

Everyone knows that the water falls from the height of a place and reaches the ground. Once it reaches the ground it was not stopped. It forms its own path and continues its journey with heavy force.

I understood from this that the Life is like a waterfall. It may come crashing down at some point, it may have its ups and down but in the end it will continue to flow. It’s in our hand to continue the journey with a heavy force like the waterfall does in order to accomplish our journey successfully.

Trees:

It’s one of the basic reasons that we are still alive in this world. It provides oxygen which is the most important gas for humans to have their respiration.

It also provides shades for us in this hot summer. Apart from this, it was the shelter for varieties of Birds and Animals. It also provides fruits, vegetables etc. which we consume for our food. Though we utilize it to the maximum, we never do anything in back for it and it doesn’t bother about it.

So from this, I thought that we should do the maximum we can do to the needy people in the society without having any expectations of getting back.

Seas:

Almost everyone likes to go and watch the seas. Some likes to stand on the water, some likes to sit and watch it and feel the sound of it.

If you look on the waves, you will find that one wave will follow the other and it will try to reach it. But as we all know, it can never reach the previous wave. But the waves will not stop it.

When the waves can do it, why we humans can’t do? If we face any obstacle in our life, we should not think that it is the final point and lose all our hopes. Instead, we should face it and keep on trying to overcome it and definitely we can overcome it. It all lies in our attitude.

Sky:

What is the message that Nature is trying to convey us through sky? Hope few might have got it already.

Sky is vast and same throughout the world, irrespective of the physical divisions that we made.

Similarly, we humans should not see differences between the people in any aspect. We should treat everyone as equal.

I have shared only about few resources. I think that each and every resource has some implied messages within it for us. Its our duty to look upon it.

These are all the messages that I learned from Nature in my perspective view. Hope it may differ in others view.

Share your views as a comment that you have learned from Nature 🙂

Hope it’s worth sharing 🙂

Sunday – Happy Day

We humans classified days into seven different days. Each day gives us a new experience and teaches many things in our life. As we begin a new day, we are awaiting for the new things that we will be experiencing on that day either a good or a bad one.

Often people feels that some days went as per their wishes, some days were not that good, even they feel that on some days they faced many worst situations. These things keeps on changing as it doesn’t happened on a particular day or we can take it in a way that there is no definition for a day which defines a particular incident that will happen on that day for the person.

On the other hand, if you ask people that which day they like most, most of them answers Sunday. Though we cannot define the incidents that will happen, most of us likes Sunday. Why do you think most people likes Sunday? What’s so special on that day?

According to my opinion, the day is definitely very special for everyone. You get a lot of time to relax yourselves 😉 All of your family members will be available in your home, you get an ample of time to spend with them and even you get sometime to think of your own sweet memories. You can watch your favorite shows/ movies. You can spend the day with your friends having some fun.

In this fast growing competitive world, all are busy with their works to develop and make themselves financially stable. They don’t even find time to have a self talk. Almost we all lead a machined routine life. In this phase, we all get some free time on Sundays. There are some people who really works hard (24*7), even they can get a little bit of free time on Sundays.So my first point is that mostly all people gets some free time on Sunday. That is a good one 🙂

Now its in our hand to make the day as a happier one. Not only Sundays, we have the ability to make all the days we pass by as an happier one. Its all lies in how we see them and handle them effectively. Try something new that you can do on that day that makes you and others happy. Spend some time to admire the nature and its beauty.

Spend some time with the kids and the old people so that you can get some inner happiness and leave out your worries. Try to do something that gives you peace. Always engage yourselves in a good, creative works 🙂 These were the small ways that helps us to have a happy day.

So forget all your worries, enjoy your present moment, create newer memories for yourselves.

Have a Great week end and a Happy Sunday 🙂

 

 

 

 

Faith – In Life

In life often people feels that everything goes wrong always for them.They may even think that nothing expected is happening in their life. Maybe they wish something but the thing that had happened might be in the contrary of their wishes. Due to this people gets frustrated, loose their hopes and interests on life.

Is that true? Do you believe that whatever happens in life is always against your expectations? Do you fall in the category of the people who thinks that its true and simply loose hopes on their life? Do you think sometimes that you don’t deserve that or you think that you deserve more than that you got?

If you answered Yes for any of the above questions, then you should take some time for yourselves to think about how can you change it. Remember always that you are not the only one who is facing these kind of problems. Try to reduce the expectations on your life, this makes you to take the things in an easier manner. Its not that only what you expect should happen in your life.Always expect for the unexpected ones.

Whatever happens in Life, life has to move on. Anything that had happened, might be out of our control. The only thing we can do is that we can control ourselves the way we react to them. It gets smoother when you learned how to react better for the things that had happened.

Faith is very much important in Life. You have to maintain it at all the circumstances. It is the only thing that will help you to sail your life boat effectively even in case of a heavy storms. Hold on to it firmly even at the worst situations of life.

Always remember that whatever happens will always do good to you in one or the other way. Believe that “Everything happens for a GOOD reasons”, the only thing is that you might not know what is that good reason it had caused.

Life is too short.Enjoy it!! Use every opportunity you gets on. Never loose your faith on it. Take your own decisions and create your own path 🙂 Never mind whether the path is full of roses or thorns, it always lies on your attitude.